Dating rules from my future self 2
But don’t get suckered as many a man before you has – Japanese girls are skilled manipulators of men. Want super sexy, in heels, tight skirts and lots of skin? Some guys are turned off by their sexuality, or lack thereof, saying that they don’t have the porn star moves of western women.Your Japanese girl will HAPPILY cook, clean, wash and fold your clothes, do your dishes, and give you a back rub all at the same time! Kidding aside, they really want to please their man, a drive that’s getting rather uncommon around the world these days. These “submissive” chicks will put you to sleep with their caring so there’s a real danger that you’ll wake up 5 years later married with kids, sexless, and living with her parents! Many a Western man has married a Japanese girl only to find that all that caring shifted 100% towards the children and he was left to fulfill his role as a walking wallet. But believe me when I tell you that they are willing to learn. Erich Fromm, in his famous treatise "The Art of Loving," noted the sad consequence of this misconception: "There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love." (That was back in 1956 ― chances are he'd be even more pessimistic today.) So what is love ― real, lasting love? What we value most in ourselves, we value most in others.
(Many commenters felt that this post is dehumanizing to Japanese women, objectifies them and promotes a fetishization of Japanese women. Obviously, there's a huge distance from here to the far more profound, personal love developed over the years, especially in marriage. Susan learned about this foundation of love after becoming engaged to David. Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person." Every hand went up. Judaism actually idealizes this universal, unconditional love.I find it really ironic that Korea has managed to create media that connects with and excites the masses in a way that living in Korea …just doesn’t.In fact, Korea is far more inhospitable to foreigners than Japan is.