Dating more than one people
If I ever did, I'd feel overwhelmed and a bit dirty in a way(growing up Catholic messed me up). Dating two women could create a time issue, although my buddy told me to look at it as a reward for working hard during the day.
He told me to cherish the time I spend with women-and I can do that, I've recently re-discovered how nice it is to have a female care about me.
Know what you want ahead of time so you aren't getting too invested. You should have a personal list."Ladies love lists, but Wygant says he's talking about a different kind.
And, let's face it, I'm not used to more than one girl liking me at a time.
Even if you're looking to keep it casual, "then by all means, also try out the variety and the spice of life." Steinberg does not suggest sleeping with more than one man at once because of added drama and STDs, but she advises all of her clients to go out on dates with multiple people—until they find someone that becomes particularly sparkly and special to them.
Emily, 28, who was my grandmother's worst nightmare—a woman who became fixated on each new flavor of the month without keeping perspective.
Grandma's concern was about weighting your options instead of driving yourself nuts and obsessing over just one man. "If you are looking for a serious relationship, then you should absolutely be dating more than one man at once...
Not investing all your time, energy, and emotions into any single man, no matter how much he's convinced you he's Mr. You simply don't have time to fret about how much time he's fretting about you if you're simultaneously dating Mr. you need quantity to find quality," says "dateologist" and flirting expert Tracey Steinberg.